In our home in Colaba, the five day Ganapati celebration is the biggest family event of the year. Our entire joint family tries to come together making it very festive. Since we use a lot of flowers for the daily decorations, one of us has to go to the Dadar Flower Market every morning to buy flowers. After bringing them home, the women gather together and weave them into spectacular garlands and various other decorations. September 2002 was the last time I was home for Ganapati and one morning, I volunteered to go with my sister-in-law to the flower market. We took the train from Churchgate to Dadar and the flowers sellers are camped right outside the station under the bridge and packed into the nearby alleys. I mean, jam- packed - you move sideways leading with your shoulder, smile and squeeze your way forward.There are flowers everywhere. Marigolds heaped on tarpaulins on the ground and sold by weight, champae in tiny baskets and sold by the number and delicately wrapped in broad leaves, the dazzling array of long streamers, as well as the colour co-ordinated gajras of mesmerizing blooms, the cacophony of the sellers and buyers screaming and jostling all contributed to a spectacular audio visual symphony. It was an exquisitely delightful experience, one that I am sure to revisit in the near future.
More than the colorful flowers, the smiles on the flower sellers stayed in my mind. From the woman sitting cross-legged on the ground weaving busily, to the young men weighing the flowers, the older gentleman convincing you to buy the garlands, to the young lady with matted hair selling fragrant lotuses - they all had beaming smiles on their faces.
They probably had to wakeup very, very early in the morning to be in a choice location to sell the flowers here (we got there around 7:00 am). Their sales probably determined what they ate for dinner, or if they went hungry. I would cringe whenever my sister-in-law bargained for a few rupees. I would nudge her, "just give her the money!" Many a times it appeared that their whole life belongings were right there in that little jholi by their feet, yet their grace and joy with the world came through loud and clear.
Whenever I complain about silly things, I think of these flower sellers and see how fortunate I am to have so much. Why then do I complain? Maybe more people in the world need to see these flower sellers and derive inspiration for their own lives. It is not how much wealth you have, it is your attitude towards life.
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Cross-posted on the Mumbai community site
March 18 2004, 22:25:19 UTC 8 years ago
March 19 2004, 07:07:44 UTC 8 years ago
March 19 2004, 04:47:31 UTC 8 years ago
missing home...
your account of ganapati festival reminded me of back home... :(man, dadar market is chaos !!! have been there just once and vowed never to step there again ever in my life.
my aunt used to live in dadar... she used to drag me along :( how i hated her for that !!!
March 19 2004, 07:20:38 UTC 8 years ago
Re: missing home...
You are absolutely right. The market was super chaotic. But I was truly impressed with the people and had a blast.I try and go home often. Its like recharging my batteries. Right now they are running on low :(
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March 19 2004, 13:01:12 UTC 8 years ago
Thank you
thank you dd! You inspired me to work with pics, and see what happened!Good suggestions, i will look into it.
May 1 2004, 03:29:46 UTC 8 years ago
want to go to India again
I found your LJ though diffdrummer. This post is really great, it almost made me cry. I was just in India in Feb and I miss it already.May 3 2004, 17:33:29 UTC 8 years ago
Re: want to go to India again
thanks man,I think taking pics and going over them later enhances our appreciation for the simpler life.
Eagerly awaiting our visit to india later in September :)